“Once I was beaten and left for dead by a
client and three of his accomplices. He lured me to his house in pretense of
wanting services, on arrival we found other people waiting. They locked the
door beat me senseless, stripped me naked then threw me into the street in broad
daylight. I was totally humiliated”.
This is just
one of the many cases of brutality that ‘Barry’ experienced for 18 years while working as a sex worker in Mombasa. The 34 year old was lured into sex trade as
a teenager by friends who were earning big from it. At first it was good
business but as the years progresses so did the challenges. Discrimination got
worse, constant STD infections-with no available treatment were common and
emotional trauma when he lost many of his peers to HIV.
His life
however took a dramatic turn in 2000 when he was invited by a friend to a peer
session for female sex workers. From the session he got to know of the -Reducing the Risk to HIV/STI for Female Sex Workers
and Men who have sex with men program, implemented by a local NGO. He started
accessing treatment, lubricants and counseling services from their Ganjoni HTC
drop in center in Mombasa town. He also acquired capital to start small scale
businesses and stopped relying entirely on sex work.
13 years
down the line, Barry is a peer educator and a HTC counselor at the center
currently being supported by a health care program. He shares the knowledge and
skills he acquired over the years as part of the program to reach out to other
male sex workers- many whom he says are suffering. His presence at the centre
encourages them Male sex workers to come by for services as they can talk to
one of their own.
“Sex trade
is getting more and more dangerous. The clients are becoming more aggressive
and turn violent at the slightest provocation, putting the sex workers at great
risk of physical violence not to mention HIV infection” Said Barry.
Barry is now
married with two children and works hard to fend for them. He aspires to go
medical school so that he can avail services to MSMs and people other different
sexual orientations without discrimination.